Happiness comes from within. Looking outside of ourself makes us want more, makes us feel less than or greater than, because we compare instead of identifying. We ending up wanting, instead of being grateful for what we have. When I get needy, I get greedy.
When I keep looking out, I always felt like I never measured up. I didn't know myself, I lost my identity, and lived my life through others. So grateful to be me in today. So grateful that it is okay to be me.