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Old 09-11-2013, 09:57 AM   #60
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SESSION 15
STEP 7 Into Action p. 76: 2


Step 7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
Let God. (76: 1) Grant me strength. (76: 2)


Step 7 written inventory Take Step 7


ION YOUR OWN: STUDY – What did the Big Book authors say?


  • READ Read Chapter 6, Into Action p. 76, paragraph 2 on Step 7. [See also 265: 0, 1, 2] Many also read Step 7 in the 12&12.
      • Heard in a meeting: “Humility is our acceptance of who and what we really are, that we are worthwhile, and that we are grateful.”


  • WRITE Write about the character defects and shortcomings you act out on, and the spiritual principles you might use instead. [Shortcoming: Failure to hit a target. To miss the mark. Out of bounds.]
Heard in a meeting: “Spirituality is what happens to us when we live and breathe the AA Steps and plunge into the Fellowship community.”
  • TALK Talk with your sponsor and other members of the group about your experiences with Step 7. Discuss your character defects and what you are doing about them.


  • PRACTICE DAILY MEDITATION / PRAYER


II WITH THE GROUP: PRACTICE – What does the Big Book say to me about my practice of Step 7?
We may read p. 76: 2 Chapter 6, Into Action on Step 7.
Members of the group may be asked to share their experience, strength, and hope on Step 7 by the Big Book. Share your writings on Step 7 in a round robin format.


Points of Focus and Reflection (Consider 76: 2)
1.) Humbly: The action of humility
  • How has “my way” landed me in difficulty?
  • Am I acting as my own higher power?
  • How does my usefulness to myself and others depend on my being balanced?
  • How does my gratitude for my life in recovery relate to my staying right size?
  • How may I take a new perspective on the world and so act differently?
  • How may I grow to have “solution-based” thinking?
  • How is humility (55: 4) related to honesty (58: 1) and sanity (5: 5; 37: 1) in regards to my own sense of proportion and perspective?
  • AA literature focuses on humility as seeing things in true perspective, as they really are. [Optional, see also 12&12 pp. 48: 0; 58: 1; 72: 2]
  • Humility is a sense of our own humanness. We are truly just trying our best.
2.) Asked Him : Prayer
  • How does the spiritual principle of surrender apply to getting out of the way so a higher power of my understanding can work in my life?
  • Have I asked other recovering alcoholics to help me by sharing their experience, strength, and hope in this matter of prayer and meditation?
  • Do I work very hard to act ‘on target,’ in ways that oppose my shortcomings?
  • Does my higher power do Steps 6 and 7 for me?

3.) Remove our shortcomings: Practice
  • Why are defects of character in Step 6 called shortcomings in Step 7? (59: 2)
  • How is my self-centered fear the chief activator of my character defects?
  • Can I see the many faces of my fear (my defects) and not deny or suppress them?
  • How may I recognize the fear and anger, bring it to awareness, and deal with it in a healthy manner? Can I ask for help to change my fears?
  • How can I stop building walls, and act instead as if I want to be happy, serene and sane?
  • Am I prepared to take an active role in the new and healthier world that I am now a part of?
  • Can I ask for the strength to do the practice? What does the term ‘practice’ mean to me?


III DAILY PRACTICE OF STEP 7 PRINCIPLES
  • Has my sense of perspective been out of proportion lately?
  • How may I accept my powerlessness over my shortcomings as well as my alcoholism?
  • How may I humbly ask for strength, practice spiritual principles, and get out of my higher power’s way?
  • Can I become more conscious of my motives and intentions before I act?
  • Instead of fear and anger, can I respond with love and patience?
  • May I practice trust and being worthy by practicing being responsible?
  • Today, can I do what “I don’t want to do”?
  • Have there been times when I have been able to refrain from acting on a character defect and practice a spiritual principle instead? Do I recognize this as my higher power working in my life?
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IV TAKE STEP 7 We take Step 7 in the second paragraph on BB page 76.


See page 78 of this workbook for an optional Step 7 written inventory.


Under the conditions of this day, according to the Big Book, we mark taking Step 7 in the manner you and your group choose. Some recite the powerful Step 7 prayer together.


pp. 83-84
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