Why would any of us in our right minds ever want to join up with recovery and make it part of our lives ? We all have had to ask ourselves this question and not only that but how about all the crazy and wild times we're now going to be missing out on or not be part of if we do join recovery going forward ? Another hard question that we've all had to ask ourselves as well. Those of us with this problem and who are in recovery we all know one thing for sure that life continued to get more difficult the longer we went without being in recovery and that is why all of us are here in recovery because it did, and this is going to happen for anyone who has our problem and there is no escaping this fact for any of us. So all of us can join recovery whenever we want to and when we're ready to but most of us usually don't join until we see it as a necessity, something we needed for our own well being, and by that time for most of us all the glitter of the living life the way we were had left us, and all the was left for most of was knowing that somehow we were going to do or say something that was going to harm someone else or cause trouble for ourselves. When this became more trouble then it is worth it for us to continue the way we were going, that's when all of us joined recovery.