Chances are we all come from a long line of people who have had this problem who came before us. This problem gets passed along through the thoughts and actions that seem so natural to us, but are not to everyone else who doesn't have this problem. This is what makes it so hard for all of us to be able to really see this problem as it is. One of the things that happens to all of us who have this problem is after a while we get stuck because of this thinking, and the things that we all do because of our thinking is no good for us. We will all keep on repeating this over and over causing all of us lots of trouble. Unfortunately for all of us this is all that we know, and unless we become willing to learn a different way to think and act, our troubles will continue and we will be passing this problem along just as it was to us. All of us can stop this problem from being spread to the innocent members of our families yet to come when we get the help we need for having this problem. We can be the ones who can make things different for those yet to come.