All of us had heard or knew something about recovery before, but until all of us have had our moment of us being forced to ask for help, it has no meaning or purpose for any of us, then all of a sudden it does. Getting in and being in recovery is a process for all of us, and we'll all need to trust that it is, and that everything is happening just as it needs to. It's when we all try to make things happen the way we think they should be happening is what messes everything up for all of us and ruins any chance we might have to be in recovery. The process that goes into making recovery what it is, is something that is way more than any of us will ever be able to understand, and this is true even for those who were around when this process first began. It's very moving and powerful thing that happens, and needs to be experienced in order to get the full meaning and benefits from it, and what this will do for anyone who will allow for this to happen. After being in recovery for a while we all begin to see the things that go into making this process what it is, and even then more importantly we learned to just leave things alone so they can happen as they need to so that all of us can be here in recovery.