There are three parts that go into making all of us the way that we all are, and we all have them, they're right there in front of us for all of us to see, but none of us are able to see all three of these together until after we all have come into recovery. This is where all of us find out what each of us has in common with each other which is why the process that's in recovery works for all who try it. There's something that's not quite right with all of us to begin with and then there's all of our solutions to this that all of us thought we had found coupled with all of us having something that's different about our bodies different from what everyone else has. It is through us being able to see how all this ties together, and then being able to accept that we do have all of this that any of us will ever be able to begin to work on what it is that we all need to work on in order to recover from being the way that we all are. Any other way of doing this has failed all of us totally. There is no other way that has been found that will work like recovery can and does for all of us in confronting what we all have in common that we'll all need to work on if any of us are ever expecting to get well.