For Things To Be Better
As we progress further and further along before any of us show up at recovery things will continue to get worse for all of us. We will all begin to want a chance for things to be better in our lives but none of us are getting that, and it seems like we never will or would, and without any of us ever really knowing why it was this way for all of us. When we all come into recovery we can all find out why this was the case for all of us, but before any of us can do that we all have to get past the fear of being here that comes to all us when we're thinking about being in recovery. We can all do this by keeping in mind that recovery is designed to help all of us, it is not to hurt any one of us like so many of the other well-intentioned things that all of us have encountered before. Recovery is not like anything else that we've ever encountered before or can we find anything like it any where else because in it are people who are just like all of us and because they are they're able to understand us like no one else can, and they know us better then we know ourselves. Because of this it helps all of us when they say that this is what worked for them, which is a lot better than someone who doesn't understand us says maybe we should try doing this to see if this works. This is what is continuing to make matters worse for all of us when we all have listened to them. The only thing that's proven to work for all of us in the long term is recovery. None of us need a quick fix to our ongoing situation that we're all in. What we all do need is to find some way so we can learn how to live with the way we all are.
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