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[MajestyJo]

More Language Of Letting Go

It’s our lesson

When you learn your lessons, the pain goes away.

–Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, The Wheel of Life

Sometimes, we wait and wait for a painful situation to end. When will he stop drinking? When will she call? When will this financial stuff get better? When will I know what to do next?

Life has its own timeline. As soon as we get the lesson, the pain neutralizes, then disappears.

And the lesson is always ours.

Examine your life. Are you waiting for someone or something outside of you to happen to make you feel better? Are you waiting for someone to learn his or her lesson for your pain to stop? If you are, try turning inward. See what the lesson really is.

God, please show me what I’m supposed to be learning right now.

i have to remember "Let it begin with me." if I see it in others, it is a reflection from something within me. A friend and I would get talking and one of us would say, "Is this stuff yours or mine? The answer was it probably belongs to both of us, but more often than not, "It can"t be my stuff, it has to be yours."